Welcome to the Your Marriage/Your Family community! We curiously refer to ourselves as “YMYFs” (pronounced “yim yifs”), communicate routinely via email, and meet regularly each Sunday morning at 11:30 AM in room 108 of the Christian Life Center at the Moody Church in downtown Chicago.

When you visit YMYF, you will encounter a large and loving group of married couples who are serious about understanding and obeying God’s Word. Many of us have been married 10 years or less, others quite a few more years than that; many have started a family and some have not.  W come from all parts of the Chicago area and represent a variety of church backgrounds, ethnicities, educational backgrounds, and occupations. We range in age mostly from the 20’s to the 50’s (excluding our “aged” mentors/teachers Bob & Linda).

The YMYFs actively help new moms with meals, meet in a variety of small Bible study groups, host family events like monthly fellowship luncheons, family movie nights, apple picking, and holidays celebrations. We also have an annual spring retreat.

 God is blessing us with growth numerically and, most importantly, spiritually.

Try us—you’ll like us!

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Game Day, Saturday, April 21, 2012, @ Bob & Linda's Place

Date January 20, 2012
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Do you like to play games?  Who doesn’t?

Well, on Saturday, April 21, 2012, you’ll get your chance to have some fun playing board games and other games with your brothers and sisters in YMYF and the Family Legacy Class.  The whole family is invited.

Our faithful leaders …

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Sunday Lesson CONTENTMENT vs MARRIAGE DISAPPOINTMENTS

Date February 9, 2012
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS. The next two Sundays Linda and I will be sharing more personally and reflectively on two issues which can rob of us the CONTENTMENT God intends to mark our lives. The first topic is  ”Disappointments in Marriage”. Sounds heavy, right? Well, we haven’t had too many and we …

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YMYF/Legacy Movie Night, Saturday, March 3rd

Date February 9, 2012
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YMYF, in conjunction with the TMC Family Legacy class will be holding a family movie night on Saturday, March 3rd, at The Moody Church. This will be a great opportunity to have fun with other YMYF community members and connect.

We will be showing The Runner from Ravenshead, which is …

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Emergency Prayer Request for Christina Swiech

Date February 7, 2012
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Please pray for Christina Swiech (the yougest daughter of Stan & Rossana Swiech) who is in the hospital because of pancreatic failure and related, severe medical problems.  Pray for healing and attentive medical care for Christina.  Pray for peace and strength for Christina, Stan, Rossana and Katherine (Christina’s older sister …

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Sunday Lesson CONTENTMENT vs. LOVE OF MONEY

Date February 1, 2012
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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This Sunday’s lesson/discussion will be led by Herr Ger Schultz who will ring the bell for Round 5: Love of Money & Affluence. Hey. I’m not saying that money is dangerous, but too much money? Or, a preoccupation with making it? Some of you will be tempted when …

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Jan.22nd Lesson CONTENTMENT -orcs,balrogs & uruk-hai

Date January 19, 2012
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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YMYFS  This week’s “battle” for contentment will feature the legendary ORC, URUK-HAI AND THE BALROG!! Unfamiliar with the fantasy world of The Lord Of The Rings? Then try ENVY, JEALOUSY AND GREED. bg

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PGM Project

Date December 15, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. Last call this Sunday for any diaper,potty chairs,kids clothes & furniture contributions to homeless Pacific Garden Mission moms & toddlers. Bring it it class - we’ll get it to the Coyles! bg

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December 18th Lesson SEE LAST SUNDAY

Date December 15, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. We’re (ptretty much) well again. Thanks for your prayers on our behalf! Our lesson remains Phil. 3:15 - 4:3. bg

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PGM DIAPER/POTTY CHAIR DRIVE

Date December 8, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS…don’t forget to bring your diaper/kids stuff contribution this Sunday for the PGM moms and babies. See details in Nov 27th post. Drive ends 12/18

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Dec. 11th Lesson: SPIRITUAL MATURITY, SIGNS OF

Date December 8, 2011
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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YMYFs. How do you assess spirtual maturity? Making progress? This Sunday’s lesson will reveal “the tale of the tape”…and the indicators will surprise you! See you right after big church in 108. Pastor Bob

PS: WELL PROBABLY HAVE SOME CHRISTMAS SEASON HUMOR AS WELL!

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YMYF Ladies

Date December 6, 2011
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You’re invited ladies! Hope you can join TMC Women’s Ministry for:

A Precious Christmas, Women’s Ministry Brunch
Dec 17th, 10AM, Room 107/8

The program will include the testimony of Amanda J., a beautiful young woman from the Southside of Chicago.  At fifteen Amanda decided to run …

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YMYF Christmas Party Cancelled

Date November 27, 2011
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It is with sadness that the YMYF Christmas Party will be cancelled on December 3rd as Linda Gunter is still in Washington with her ill mother.  Please pray for Bob and Linda and their family as they have called in Hospice and are waiting on God’s timing.

If you …

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PGM DIAPER DRIVE Details

Date November 23, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS…this is our special holiday helps ministry for the moms and kids stranded at the Pacific Garden Mission. Bring to class: diapers for 3-5 year olds, potty chairs, nice kids clothing, etc. AND IT WILL ALL BE STUFFED IN MY OFFICE UNTIL Dec. 18th. The Coyles will pick it …

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Sun. Nov. 27th Lesson KINDRED SPIRITS

Date November 23, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. After you’ve recovered from the turkey/football/shopping frenzy, come to church, OK? Even if you’re only semi-recovered? This week we will work through Phil. 2: 16-30 re: sacrificial service, kindred spirits and two spiritual super stars. It won’t be as boring as it sounds. 108 …

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Sun. Nov. 20th Class NO GRUMBLING

Date November 17, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS. Now that we have a handle on “humility”, what does it look like in real time? First olive out of the bottle: do everything without grumbling or disputing/questioning/complaining etc. Phil. 2:14 Can “everything” really mean EVERYTHING?

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PGM Diapers/Misc Furniture Drive

Date November 17, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. As announced in class, we have a specific holiday challenge to help the moms and kids at the Pacific Garden Mission! Between now and our last class of the year on December 11th, can we collect the following? PAMPERS (ages 3,4 & 5), new or slightly used POTTY CHAIRS …

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SUNDAY- Humility (Finally)

Date November 10, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs…we’ve had “humility” on the calendar for a few Sundays but THIS SUNDAY, I think we’ll actually get there. Phil. 2: 5-11 remains our primary text and we’ll spend some time in other passages. Do you think you have “humilty” figured out. Oh, no. We (me …

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Sun. NOV 6th Class - Adoption Stories/Humility's Children

Date November 3, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. This Sunday is Orphan Sunday at MC and we will hear our own adoption stories from the Disselkoens, Pelcyznskis and Tabangays. And if time allows and God wills, we will look at the “children” of humility in our own lives. What happens after we’re totally humble, chastened, diminished …

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10/30/11 Lesson Recap

Date November 2, 2011
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Philippians 2: 2-11
 
Paul urges the people of Philippi to live a life of humility and display an attitude of lowliness of mind. We are urged to consider the interests of others above our own interests; the world on the other hand tells us the opposite.What better example to …
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Sun. Oct. 30th Lesson - HUMILITY (Ouch!)

Date October 28, 2011
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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YMYFs. Pre-read Phil. 2:1-11.This Sunday we jump off the diving board (called “ME”) into HUMILITY across our entire life Jesus’ way. We’ll look at what principles and actions God’s Word intends, try to identify the implications for our fellowship and marriage, and finally struggle with this …

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Event: NURTURING SPIRITUAL GROWTH IN CHILDREN

Date October 25, 2011
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NURTURING SPIRITUAL GROWTH IN CHILDREN

Sunday, October 30, 1-2:30pm

All Volunteers, please plan to attend this equipping luncheon in room 307! Guest speaker Nadia Swearingen-Friesan will help us examine how to better guide & nurture our children spiritually both in our classrooms and at home. Parents, you are also welcome …

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TMC Women's Ministry Home Groups

Date October 24, 2011
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YMYF Ladies:

Please consider taking advantage of 1 or more of the upcoming Women’s Ministry’s Home Groups. A Home Group is made up of a small group of a women, led by a mentor, designed to build relationships, engage in meaningful conversations, and learn something new that you …

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SUN. OCT. 23rd NO CLASS

Date October 20, 2011
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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YMYFs…no class this Sunday due to the Church’s Annual Business Meeting. But the next Sunday? Oct. 30th? We tackle HUMILITY in our study of The Upward Call in Philippians.bg

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"Courageous" Bible Study on Sundays

Date October 17, 2011
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Following up on the fatherhood conversation started by the Courageous movie (http://www.courageousthemovie.com/videos-trailer), the Legacy class will be starting the Courageous Bible Study on Sunday, October 30th. This four-to-six week study, officially licensed from the makers of Courageous, will show clips from the movie for analysis …

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Sun. Oct 16th Lesson HUMILITY=UNITY

Date October 13, 2011
Author Robert (Bob) L. Gunter
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YMYFs. This Sunday we’ll focus on Phil. 2:1-8 and what makes Moody Church tick (or not). Plus, I’ll share what happened in Tennessee with my brother John and “Are You Ready For Some Football?” Be there. 108. 11:45…with your game face on. bg

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NO CLASS This Sunday: Worship Service @ 11AM

Date October 4, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS. It’s Marathon Sunday at Moody Church so here are the options: Come at 7AM to join the cheering section (it really is a kick) OR Come at 11AM for the worship service. Are you walking worthy of the gospel this week? Pastor Bob

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10/2/11 Lesson Recap

Date October 4, 2011
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Philippians 1:27-29
 
Paul considered it a privilege to suffer for Christ; part of our calling is to suffer for Him. Are we suffering for the right reason? Suffering as a consequence of our sinful behavior is not what Paul had in mind when he said that we ought to …
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Sunday's Lesson - Some Suffering + Worthy Walking

Date September 29, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs  So, we’ll catch up to where we’re at, talk about SUFFERING (don’t want to go there but…)and look in more depth at what it means to “…let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ..” It’s time to make some more …

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9/25/11 Lesson Recap

Date September 28, 2011
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Philippians 1: 12-21
 
Paul was praising God for the gospel. He was such a powerful evangelist that even the Roman guards were being converted and the word of God was spreading.
 
What is the gospel? It is the good news that all who believe shall have eternal life because of …
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Sun. Sept. 25th Lesson - In Chains! The Gospel!

Date September 22, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. Please read Phil. 1:12-29. How can you be “in chains” and rejoice? How did “the gospel” animate Paul’s life - and - why not ours? What does it mean to “conduct yourselves in a manner worthy”? Are these questions all rfelated somehow? Lord willing, we’ll get those answers …

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FEMININE APPEAL @ Gunters - Thursdays

Date September 15, 2011
Author Linda Gunter
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YMYF Women. Would you like to study the book Feminine Appeal  by Carolyn Mahoney with other gals from the class one Thursday evening a month? Starting on Oct. 27th I’m opening our home, sending Bob to the basement and setting out my silver so we can share what it …

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Sunday Lesson/UPWARD CALL/In Process

Date September 15, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFs. This week we’ll tackle Phil. 1: 11 beginning at verse 6 in an effort to learn how God changes us and what that really looks like in real time. Are you really becoming better? And is that the standard?There may be some home work. I KNOW there …

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Women's Fall Retreat

Date September 8, 2011
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I know most of the women in our class are in a busy season of life, with young children, schooling children, working long hours, and lots of responsibilities at home.  However I challenge you to commit to this “one day” event with the Women’s Ministry.  This will be an …

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Babies, Meals, Need, Help

Date September 8, 2011
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Do you enjoy cooking?  Would you like to help families in need?  Or is ordering take out for others more up your alley?  Either way we would love for you to partner with our Family Care Ministry in serving class members who are going through a trial or transition (new …

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Sunday's Class - We Start Philippians!

Date September 8, 2011
Author Bob & Linda Gunter
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YMYFS. This Sunday we’ll begin what I expect to be a faith changing study for a few months through the Book of Philippians. It’s entitled THE UPWARD CALL from Phil. 3:14 and we will be pressed higher! Our first lesson is “Slaves In Process” (Phil. 1:1-11 …

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Welcome Baby Rodriguez

Date August 15, 2011
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Miguel and Rebecca welcomed their new baby son on Friday, August 12th…21 inches long and 9 lbs 3oz in weight.  Congrats to Miguel and Rebecca and older brothers Miguel and Martin.

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